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I wrote this blog in June of 2011 and thought we could all use a reminder on how it is so important to kiss each other to keep those sparks flying!

Are you still trying to figure out how to have the relationship you thought you would have before you were married? Life does get in the way of being married and with kids. How do you sneak the passion back in when you have forgotten how to do it?

I just finished reading a book by Ellen Kreidman, P.H.D. called “The 10 Second Kiss” and it is a must for couples to read. She brings out the fun in romance. The first chapter is about the 10 second kiss but there is so much more than that in the book.

Per Ellen’s suggestion, I decided I was going to give Larry a 10 second kiss everyday. As you know, I already give Larry a kiss when he gets home and when he leaves but never has there been a 10 second kiss. With my heart wide open I asked Larry to give me a 10 second kiss. Of course, his reaction was “What?” but he laughingly obliged and bent down and gave me the kiss I requested.

Now it is our little connection at noontime before he goes back to work. Typically we both are laughing during the 10 second kiss but there are times when his kisses are very good and there is a passion we have to wait for until he gets home from work. Ah, the anticipation! What fun!

This book is for couples who are looking for ways to connect but don’t feel they have time. Ellen has some great suggestions and they are easy to do. Looking to keep the spark in your marriage alive, then read Ellen Kreidman’s book, “The 10 Second Kiss”

Ellen has written other books I have read. Take the time to read these too. You will learn so much about how to have a great marriage:

Light Her Fire: How to Ignite Passion, Joy, and Excitement in the Woman You

Light His Fire: How to Keep Your Man Passionately and Hopelessly in Love With You

These books are probably out of print but I still highly recommend them. Check your local library and/or Amazon to find a copy.

Keep those sparks flying!
JoJo

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Do you have a sexless marriage? With all the stress of life today, companies expecting you to do the work of 2 people in 8 hours, people losing their jobs and/or their homes and then making sure the kids are being taken care of would exhaust any couple. How can you be in the mood to make love?

NBC’s Maria Schiavocampo reports on one couple’s struggle with one partner not being interested in being intimate.

Sexless Marriage

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Therapists Argie Allen and Ian Kerner give advice on how to get your sparks flying again.

The book Kris and Astan were reading is: “Passionate Marriage” by David Schnarch, PHD.

So if you are having trouble “getting in the mood” then try to make time for each other and try some of my funny ideas to bring the passion back into your relationship.

Keep those sparks flying!
JoJo

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“Your marriage is a gift from God; how you treat it is a gift to him.”

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Another unusual holiday will be celebrated on Sunday, April 28th, by a few people that are in the know and of course this holiday is a special one I wanted to make sure you were aware of. It is “Kiss Your Mate Day”.

With a website called SurprisKiss.com we have to celebrate this one. So Sunday let your sweetheart know about this special day and that you want to make sure you both celebrate by giving each other surprise kisses all day long.

If it has been a while since you have acted like you are lovers here are some suggestions:

• Kiss when you first wake up
• Kiss while you are getting dressed
• Kiss while passing each other in the hall
• Kiss in front of the kids
• Kiss when you are walking into a store
• Kiss while you are cooking
• Kiss while having a cup of coffee
• Kiss while watching a movie
• Kiss when laughing (the best kind)
• Kiss and make up
• Kiss when the kids are asleep
• Kiss just because…..

This should get you both going and I am sure you can think of other times when you would like to kiss.

Oh….and by the end of the day you should both be ready to kiss all night long.

Keep those sparks flying!
JoJo

***My free eBook is coming soon! Be on the lookout for it and when it comes out you can be one of the first to get it. ***

“Your marriage is a gift from God; how you treat it is a gift to him.”

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Did you know it is Pig in a Blanket Day? What??? Don’t know what Pig in a Blanket is? It is a pancake wrapped around a cooked sausage and syrup over the top. Yum!

Of course I couldn’t leave well enough alone without cooking up a little romance on a day like today. So plan on having Pig in a Blanket for dinner tonight to celebrate and leave a note for your sweetheart to read privately.

Write inside your card:

Ladies:

“Sweetheart I would like your sausage to be wrapped around my pancake tonight and we will have our own culinary delight.”

Men:

“Sweetheart I would like my sausage to be wrapped around your pancake tonight and we will have our own culinary delight.”

A little romance and laughter is always good for your relationship.

Keep those sparks flying!
JoJo

***My free eBook is coming soon! Be on the lookout for it and when it comes out you can be one of the first to get it. ***

“Your marriage is a gift from God; how you treat it is a gift to him.”

© 2013, Surprise Kiss. All rights reserved.

Did you get everything I told you to get on Wednesday for a romantic Irish evening? If not, then you will want to make sure you have everything ready for Sunday evening.

Here is the list I gave you on Wednesday:

• St Patrick’s Day Card

• Candles

In your card write
:
“Top of the Mornin to You Sweetheart! Let’s have a little St. Patrick’s Day fun by giving each other Irish kisses all day long. And in the evening when we go to bed we will continue our Irish kisses until we feel like two Lucky Leprechauns that just hit the magical pot of gold.”

Romantic Irish surprises are always the most fun.

Keep those sparks flying!
JoJo

***Finally my free eBook is coming soon! Be on the lookout for it and when it comes out you can be one of the first to get it. ***

“Your marriage is a gift from God; how you treat it is a gift to him.”

© 2013, Surprise Kiss. All rights reserved.

St Patrick’s Day is on Sunday and you would like to plan something romantic to do with your honey but haven’t a clue on what to do.

Then you will want to follow the instructions below and you will be ready for romance on St. Patrick’s Day:

• St Patrick’s Day Card
• Celtic Music (You can usually get a Celtic CD near the candles at Wal-Mart or Target)
• Sexy lingerie
• Candles

Check in on Friday, March 15th, to find out what you will need to do to accomplish your dream of a Romantic Irish Evening.

Romantic surprises are always the most fun.

Keep those sparks flying!
JoJo

***Finally my free eBook is coming soon! Be on the lookout for it and when it comes out you can be one of the first to get it. ***

“Your marriage is a gift from God; how you treat it is a gift to him.”

© 2013, Surprise Kiss. All rights reserved.

With winter rains on the West Coast and snow on the East Coast it is a weekend to stay home. But you still want to feel as if you have done something special with your sweetheart.

You can make it special even if it is at home by making it an evening neither of you will forget for a long time.

• Order Chinese Takeout
• Chill the Wine
• Shower Early
• Turn on the Music
• Slip into something sexy

Slip on something sexy, turn on the music, pour a glass of wine for each of you and enjoy your Chinese takeout right out of the box and feed each other with chopsticks. It will get messy and the best part is when the food falls on to your body you can lick it off each other. Things may get hotter than your food but that is the point. Let the fun begin.

Neither of you will ever look at Chinese food the same way again. Your sweetheart may enjoy it so much it may become a weekly ritual.

Keep those sparks flying!
JoJo

***Finally my free eBook is coming soon! Be on the lookout for it and when it comes out you can be one of the first to get it. ***

“Your marriage is a gift from God; how you treat it is a gift to him.”

© 2013, Surprise Kiss. All rights reserved.

Do you have a love story about you and your sweetheart you would like to share? Then you will want to head straight to Bedheadpjs.com and tell them your story by Feb 8th, 2013. They want to hear about your love story between you and your spouse, friend, children or family and you might win a very nice pajama set.

BedHeadPJS.com is having a contest were you get the opportunity to share with them your love story and if your story is chosen you will win a Love Letters PJ. Most importantly you story will be featured on BedHeadPJS.com’s blog for their followers to read!

Guys do you want to make points with your sweetheart? Then write your love story about the love of your life. Who knows you might end up with a very nice pair of pajamas for your sweetie pie.

Ladies don’t be shy share you love story with BedHeadPJS and those cute Love Letters PJs might just become yours
.
What a very romantic thing to do is to share your very special love story with Bedhead Pajamas and their followers.

Keep those sparks flying!
JoJo
2/1/13

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Looking for ways to rekindle the romance with your sweetheart? Then watch the Today Show’s video with Dr. Laura Berman. She has good sound advice that is easy to implement into your life. So watch the 2:50 minute video and start romancing each other:

Re-Energize Your Romance for a Hotter New Year

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Start today if you want to keep the romance in your relationship. You won’t wake up one day saying my husband/wife feels more like my brother or sister instead of my lover.

Keep those sparks flying!
JoJo

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Did you pick up everything I told you to get? If you didn’t here is the list of the things you will need to have a romantic Halloween evening.

• Halloween Card

• Witches Hat

• Black Lingerie (Ladies) or Black Silk Boxers (Men)

• Cinnamon Candles

• Edible Potions and Lotions in Chocolate, Vanilla, Strawberry, etc. (Kama Sutra Massage Cream or oil can be purchase usually at your local drugstore or go to a Lingerie Shop and see what they have to offer)

Write inside your Halloween card and then give it to your sweetheart in the morning.

“Happy Halloween sweetheart, grab the broom and we will fly together into our bedroom and have a very deliciously bewitching hour of love.”

HMMM….the anticipation….

Light the candles; put out the edible massage cream or oil on the bedside table.

Ladies slip on your sexy black lingerie and don’t forget to put on your witches hat.

Men grab those silk boxers and lay out the witches’ hat for your sweetheart along with your favorite lingerie you like seeing her in and let the fun begin.

May you have a very delicious and bewitching evening together……

Keep those sparks flying!
JoJo

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