Archive for April, 2011

Don’t know what to do this weekend with your sweetheart? You want to do something but have no money to spend and are considering just staying home and watching TV? Boring!!! Have you considered finding out if there are any free things going on in you community or a town near by?  You might be surprised to find out there is plenty to do and it won’t cost you a cent.

Here are some suggestions on what to do or how to find out about free events in your area:

• Local News – Listen to your local channel. They usually have a segment on Thursday or Fridays telling you what is going on in your community or near by and if it is free or not.
• Local Newspaper – Look for the activities and events section
• Local Independent Newspaper – Look for the activities and events section
• Internet – Go on Google and type in Free things to do in your city
• Call your local Museum – Find out if there is anything going on there
• Arts & Crafts Show – It is always fun to see what your local artists are doing
• Walk in the park
• Hiking Trails – Hiking
• Beach or Lake Shoreline – Stroll along the shore
• Botanical Gardens – Enjoy a stroll
• Downtown – Window Shop
• Open Houses – View homes for sale in a neighborhood you would like to live in. Take notes on how their home was decorated and then sit down and figure out how you and your partner can get the same look but on a beer budget

I am always on the look out for different things for me and Larry to do. Sometimes I will find information on free concerts, poetry readings, nature walks and once in a while free movies. You just have to look for them. When was the last time you visited your local museum or taken a hike or walk nearby. Simple little things like this will give you a whole new appreciation for the area you live in and something new to talk about with your sweetheart. Most of these things happen during the day and that makes it fun too. Dates don’t always have to be in the evening.

No matter what you decide to do the important thing is you are taking the time to enjoy each other away from the daily grind. Oh, don’t forget to fill a thermos with your favorite beverage of choice and bring a little snack. Sit on a park bench and enjoy! No money, no worries, just time with each other and the pleasure of your surroundings.

Keep those sparks flying!
JoJo

Need help with cooking for romance, relationship or travel ideas? Then go to my Surprise Kiss Store above and click on the tab to see the authors I like to read and games that are fun to play with your sweetheart.

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What is your relationship like? Does it have a solid foundation? Do you know what it takes to have a successful marriage?

Here are 5 basics to a successful marriage:

1. Love yourself

When you love yourself you are open to someone else loving you. If you want a healthy relationship it is important to feel good about yourself first. How can you truly love another person and accept their faults without accepting yours too? You will have a stronger and more balanced marriage when you love yourself first.

2. Be best friends with your spouse

Love has its ups and downs but when you are best friends with your partner you can work through anything together.

3. Take time for each other

Couples who spend time together, stay together. It doesn’t take a lot of time, just a half hour everyday where you sit down and listen to what is going on in each others life. When you make time for the other person you are saying you are important to me. I love and care about you.

4. Learn to argue without hurting the other

There will always be disagreements in a relationship. If something is bothering you speak your mind and try to come to an agreement together. Just know there will be times when you can’t come to an agreement. Then agree to disagree. It is important to respect each others feelings and opinions.

5. Kiss and hug every day

The simple act of giving each other a kiss and hug says I care and love you no matter what is going on in our life right now.  Intimacy is such an important part of feeling close in your marriage.

If you follow these 5 guidelines you will have a more open and loving relationship with your spouse even when the going gets tough. 

Keep those sparks flying!
JoJo

Need help with cooking for romance, relationship or travel ideas? Then go to my Surprise Kiss Store above and click on the tab to see the authors I like to read and games that are fun to play with your sweetheart.

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Happiness in your marriage is an inside job. Keep saving $5 a week for your romantic getaway.

Keep those sparks flying!
JoJo

Need help with cooking for romance, relationship or travel ideas? Then go to my Surprise Kiss Store above and click on the tab to see the authors I like to read and games that are fun to play with your sweetheart.

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Did you get everything you needed for a romantic Easter Evening? Here is a reminder of what you need to have:

  • Candles
  • Romantic Music
  • Lingerie (A pastel color would be nice)
  • Bunny Ears

 

  • Blank Easter Card
  • Feather Boa

Ladies

In the morning give your sweetheart your card with the note written inside:

“Happy Easter Sweetheart! This sexy Easter bunny will be waiting for you at the end of the bunny trail (our bedroom) tonight for your Easter pleasure!”

That evening light the candles, turn on the music and put on the sexy lingerie you purchased along with your bunny ears and feather boa.

Men

In the morning give your sweetheart your card with the note written inside:

“Happy Easter Sweetheart! You are the only Easter bunny I want! Meet me at the end of the bunny trail (our bedroom) tonight for your Easter pleasure!”

In the evening light the candles, turn on the music and lay out your favorite lingerie your wife wears along with the bunny ears and feather boa.

I wish you both a very funny and pleasurable Easter bunny evening!

Keep those sparks flying!
JoJo

Need help with cooking for romance, relationship or travel ideas? Then go to my Surprise Kiss Store above and click on the tab to see the authors I like to read and games that are fun to play with your sweetheart.

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Last October I wrote about how making love has many benefits not only for your relationship but for your health. See “The Feel Good Exercise” on Oct 5th, 2010. Taking time to be intimate with each other has another health benefit besides the ones I mentioned in October that very few people know about.

Did you know being sexually active with someone you love can help to build more brain-cells? Stress and anxiety can lower brain-cell growth! So the next time you are feeling stressed or finding yourself getting a little forgetful grab your sweetheart and make love. Besides all the health benefits and a great workout for the two of you, making love helps the growth of new brain-cells! Who would of thought!

Bring on the passion tonight!

Keep those sparks flying!
JoJo

Need help with cooking for romance, relationship or travel ideas? Then go to my Surprise Kiss Store above and click on the tab to see the authors I like to read and games that are fun to play with your sweetheart.

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When you save $5 a week it is saying “I love you” every week to your marriage!

Keep those sparks flying!
JoJo

Need help with cooking for romance, relationship or travel ideas? Then go to my Surprise Kiss Store above and click on the tab to see the authors I like to read and games that are fun to play with your sweetheart.

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Do you want to surprise your sweetheart with a romantic Easter next week but don’t have a clue on how to make it happen? Then you will want to make sure you have everything listed below:

  •   [amazon_link id=”B003EH1F3W” target=”_blank” ]Classic Erotica Simply Sensual Vanilla Violet Massage Candle With Phermomones, natural soy, 4 oz.[/amazon_link]

                           Romantic Music

                                               Lingerie (A pastel color would be nice)

                                           [amazon_link id=”B003NNVC94″ target=”_blank” ]WeGlow International Flashing Bunny Ears (3 Pieces)[/amazon_link]

                                           Blank Easter Card

                                           [amazon_link id=”B003NNVDRK” target=”_blank” ]WeGlow International Feather Boa – White (1 piece)[/amazon_link]

Over the weekend make sure you get everything your need. Next Friday I will give you the rest of the instructions. It will bring out the playfulness in you both have been longing for.

Keep those sparks flying!
JoJo

Need help with cooking for romance, relationship or travel ideas? Then go to my Surprise Kiss Store above and click on the tab to see the authors I like to read and games that are fun to play with your sweetheart.

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Being prepared ahead of time for a romantic getaway will help to take the stress out of packing. Besides packing your basics, i.e. clothing and toiletries, have a box full of all the things you might want to bring along with romance in mind for you and your sweetheart. This is your go to box when you are in the mood for romance whether it is at home or an impromptu little getaway.

Fill a nice basket or decorative box with the goodies you always want to have on hand for a romantic evening:

[amazon_link id=”B003EH1F3W” target=”_blank” ]Classic Erotica Simply Sensual Vanilla Violet Massage Candle With Phermomones, natural soy, 4 oz.[/amazon_link]

[amazon_link id=”B001GR99MG” target=”_blank” ]M.L.F. Enterprises Sex Bubbles , The Bubble Bath for Lovers, 8-Ounce, Mango Madness[/amazon_link]

[amazon_link id=”B000H879MW” target=”_blank” ]Kama Sutra Massage Therapy Kit, 1 kit[/amazon_link]

[amazon_link id=”B000DZSZ6I” target=”_blank” ]Kama Sutra Massage Oil, Sweet Almond, 8 Ounces[/amazon_link]

[amazon_link id=”B00005YW4H” target=”_blank” ]Come Away With Me[/amazon_link]

Romantic Games (See “Dicey Love”)

Of course don’t forget to have pretty lingerie hanging in your closet ready for you and your sweetheart to choose from for any special romantic evening. And then there is always wine, champagne, beer or apple cider to consider having in your refrigerator or pantry to include for those special evenings too.

When you take the time to put all the things you need for a romantic evening in one spot you will always be ready for romance whether it is a night at home or a planned weekend away.

Keep those sparks flying!
JoJo

Need help with cooking for romance, relationship or travel ideas? Then go to my Surprise Kiss Store above and click on the tab to see the authors I like to read and games that are fun to play with your sweetheart.

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When you remember the positive parts of your relationship, your marriage shines! Keep saving $5 a week for your romantic getaway.

Keep those sparks flying!
JoJo

Need help with cooking for romance, relationship or travel ideas? Then go to my Surprise Kiss Store above and click on the tab to see the authors I like to read and games that are fun to play with your sweetheart.

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This weekend you and your sweetheart just want to stay home and jell out. You don’t want to get all dressed up. You both feel like you have been running around and doing too many things all week.  So how do you get in the mood for love when you are so tired?

I’m going to teach you how to play Dicey Love Game. It won’t cost you a lot of money to play and it will get you both in the mood for love.

Here is what you will need for your Dicey Love Game:

  • 2 Dice (each a different color)
  • Paper
  • Pen
  • Candles
  • Soft Music in the background

Earlier in the day you wrote on a piece of paper the numbers 1 through 6 for each dice. Write the actions for one of the dice and body parts for the other.

 Here is an example:

                                  White Dice                        Red Dice
                                 1 – Wrist                                 1 – Lick
                                 2 – Neck                                 2 – Suck
                                 3 – Stomach                           3 – Massage
                                 4 – Thigh                                4 – Blow 
                                 5 – Lip                                    5 – Caress 
                                 6 – Chest                                6 – Lightly Bite

Head to your bedroom together and put on a clean rob (no holes please) with nothing on underneath. Light the candles; turn on the music and enjoy a drink of your choice while playing your game. Relax and have fun together!

One of you rolls the dice and must follow what you rolled. For example: if you rolled the number 6 on the white dice (chest) and number 1 on the red dice (lick) then you get to lick your partner’s chest. If your partner rolled the number 4 on the white dice and 4 on the red dice they would need to squeeze your thighs. Take turns rolling the dice. This is a win/win game of Dicey Love. Set a time limit on how long the person needs to do this, 1 minute, 2 minutes, etc.

You can change out the actions and body parts to your likings or when you play again.

Have fun playing your “Dicey Love Game” over the weekend it will help to keep your love life exciting!

Keep those sparks flying! 
JoJo

Need help with cooking for romance, relationship or travel ideas? Then go to my Surprise Kiss Store above and click on the tab to see the authors I like to read and games that are fun to play with your sweetheart.

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