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new $5 billIf you keep saving $5 a week for a whole year for a romantic getaway you and your sweetheart will have the opportunity to be very naughty with your nice!

Keep those sparks flying!
JoJo

“Your marriage is a gift from God; how you treat it is a gift to him.”

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Couple-FireplaceHappy New Year Everyone! As promised here is another romantic New Year’s Eve idea for you and your sweetheart.

Here is what you will need:

• New Year Card
• Something Bubbly, i.e., Champagne, Sparkling Wine, Beer, Soda or Sparkling Cider
• Romantic Music

Write in your card:

“I plan on holding you tight when it is exactly midnight tonight and give you lot’s of kisses all over your body until it is on fire and you are singing Happy New Year all night long.”

In the afternoon hand your sweetheart the card and let the anticipation begin…….

Later that night:

• Light the fireplace
• Pour your drink of choice
• Turn on the music

May you have a very romantic New Year’s Eve and all year long.

Happy New Year!!!

Keep those sparks flying!
JoJo

“Your marriage is a gift from God, how you treat it is a gift to him.”

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People playing miniature golf outdoorsI’ve got a date idea you may not have done in a long time. So grab your sweetheart and on Saturday head out to your local miniature golf park to celebrate Miniature Golf Day together!

You don’t have to be good at playing miniature golf. You can have fun wagering against the other on who is going to win. With all those windy turns and obstacles you never know who will claim victory and that is part of the fun.

After your game go out to your favorite hamburger joint and enjoy a basket of burger and fries and don’t forget to order a malt to share with two straws.

The excitement and joking between you and your sweetheart might just get you in the mood to have a little laughter and playful fun together between the sheets later that night.

I certainly hope your night with your sweetheart will be up to par!

Keep those sparks flying!
JoJo

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new $5 billYou and your sweetheart will be indulging your senses with enjoyment when you go away on your wedding anniversary weekend if you keep saving $5 a week for a whole year.

Keep those sparks flying!
JoJo

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“Your marriage is a gift from God; how you treat it is a gift to him.”

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The Today Show had Brittany Gibbons on to talk about how she decided to have sex with her husband for a year. Her reasons for this decision were that she had such a low self-esteem of her body and didn’t feel comfortable being naked with her sweetheart.

I have found that most women feel this way whether they are skinny or fat. What women don’t understand is men find women sexy no matter what size they are.

Brittany decided to try something to change her feelings about her body.

365 Days of Sex:

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What is so impressive is how Brittany transformed the feelings she had about her body and their marriage by being intimate with her husband every night for a year.

Got issues with your body? Ladies listen and try what Brittany did and you may change the way you feel too.

Keep those sparks flying!
JoJo

**My free eBook is coming soon! Be on the lookout for it and when it comes out you can be one of the first to get it. ***

“Your marriage is a gift from God; how you treat it is a gift to him.”

© 2013, Surprise Kiss. All rights reserved.

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couple in bed2Do you have everything you need to surprise your sweetheart with an evening of romance over Labor Day Weekend?

Just in case you haven’t had the time or didn’t read Wednesday’s blog here is the list:

• Blank Card
• Sexy Lingerie
• Beer, Wine, Sparking Cider
• Candles
• Romantic Music

In the morning hand your card to your sweetheart with the note written inside:

“Happy Labor Day weekend sweetheart! We will be sleeping in tomorrow because tonight I want to kiss you all night long until we both work up a deliciously sweaty climax and after we will blissfully fall asleep in each other’s arms.”

That evening:

Layout the sexy lingerie
• Pour your bubbly of choice
• Light the candles
• Have romantic music of your choice softly playing in the background

May you and your sweetheart have a safe and very romantic Labor Day Weekend.

Keep those sparks flying!
JoJo

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Three christmas candles and kerchiefLabor Day Weekend is almost here and to help you and your sweetheart celebrate it in a romantic way I have made a list of things you will need to have ready before the weekend.

What you need to have:

• Blank Card
• Sexy Lingerie
• Beer, Wine, Sparking Cider
• Candles
• Romantic Music

Gather everything and on Friday you will get the rest of your instructions.

Keep those sparks flying!
JoJo

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Lots of couples ask me do you have to go out on date night. While it is fun to get out of the house and not be disturbed by family or friends. It is not always possible to get away for a couple of hours. With money being so tight lots of couples are choosing to stay in.

If you read my blog regularly then you know date night isn’t always about going out. It is about finding creative ways to spend time together even if it is at home. Here a few suggestions to help you rethink the stay at home date.

  • Play a game together and the winner gets something special. Keep it sexy.
  • Read a book. One couple I know love sci-fi. They decide on a book and read it together. Not into sci-fi then  read a romance novel? Guys don’t roll eyes. When you read a romance novel together you are both getting into the mood for sex. Try it you will like it and so will your sweetheart. She will be saying, “Thank you baby”.
  • Cook together. Try a new recipe, set the table, turn on the music and enjoy the fabulous dinner you and your sweetheart prepared.
  • Turn off the TV, light the candles, turn on the music and pour a glass of wine. When choosing music, choose jazz because studies have proven it will get you in the mood for love.
  • Rent a movie and enjoy a few appetizers and beer, just another way to enjoy your quiet time together. Larry & I like to sometimes pick up a large nachos from Taco Bell and split it for dinner.
  • If the weather permits go for a moonlight walk together.
  • Draw a warm bubble bath, light the candles, turn on soft music and relax together in the tub. If your bathtub is too small take turns relaxing in the tub while the other helps you wash and dry yourself. This should definitely get you into the mood to get a little closer.

These 7 date night ideas are just to get you started. I am sure you can come up with some of your own
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Let me know what you like to do at home for date night with your sweetheart.

Keep those sparks flying!
JoJo

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Most young couples think that sex is only for the young. When you think about it, it would be very sad if as we age sex flies out the door. Intimacy is such an important part of feeling connected with your sweetheart. Just because you are older doesn’t mean your sex life is nonexistent.

Yes, as woman age desire goes down but there are things you can do to keep the sparks alive. Dr Lauren Streich, Assistant Clinical Professor of Obstetrics & Gynecology at Northwestern University was on the Today Show recently and she discussed how woman can continue to have an active sex life even after menopause.

Dr Lauren Streich said there are couples who are being intimate even into their seventies and eighties.

Secrets of Sex after Menopause

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Sex is a beautiful union between two people who love and trust each other and you can continue to have a very satisfying love life if you take care of your health and body. I know of couples who are in their seventies and eighties who are reading my blog and saving their money for a romantic weekend away.

These are couples who are healthy and are having an active sex life. They are taking care of themselves and when a health issue arises they go to see a doctor before it gets out of hand.

Ladies when you notice your desire for intimacy with your sweetheart diminishes go see your doctor and make sure it is not a health issue. If you have ruled out any health issues then discuss with your doctor what you can do to get your groove back in running order.

Most importantly remember, “If you don’t use it, you lose it.”

Keep those sparks flying,
JoJo

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Sorry you are getting this later in the day instead of this morning….life has been hectic. Let me know what you think or try it for a couple of weeks and let me know if it has changed your relationship. What do you do to make your sweetheart feel special?

Do you know what most couples don’t do enough of? No, it isn’t sex. Well maybe that too. If you start to do this one thing you may get more of that too. I am talking about our most basic function. Do you know what the largest organ in our body is? Give up? It is skin. Do you know what its basic function is? Skin gives us our five senses, i.e., sight, sound, smell, touch and taste. The one thing I believe couples don’t get enough of is the power of touch.

Too many people don’t know how to interact with each other anymore. With all the computer games, TV, texting and Facebook we have forgotten how to be close with each other and that includes one of the most important people in our lives, our spouses.

Research has shown couples who openly touch each other every day with a kiss, hug, and cuddle or just holding hands can help you both feel loved and connected even during times of stress. Did you know these simple little moments of touch help you feel more romantic toward each other?

It is such a simple thing to do throughout the day to keep each of you feeling loved and cared for by the other. Tonight when you finally sit down to relax in front of the TV don’t sit across the crouch from your sweetheart, sit right next to them. Or you could lay your head down on your sweetheart’s lap while watching TV. You will both feel closer.

Keep those sparks flying!
JoJo

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